I have been thinking about these questions when I was eating and when I go to the toliet.(It is rather exaggerated.Haha.)*What is the real job of a teacher?* and **Who is the real *killer* of Adeline Ng Ai Choo?**

Firstly,I wished to answer the first question. I felt that the real job of a teacher is to teach. What exactly do I mean? Teaching involves teaching morals,knowledge and skills. So not only academic is involved. That is the real job of a teacher. However, a teacher can choose to do beyond the job. Why should they do beyond their jobs? That may be one question you all may asked. Its because when a teacher teaches, a bond is actually formed. The student-teacher bond is exactly why a teacher should do more for a student.

Secondly, I wanted to answer the second question. In my point of view, I thought that Adeline Ng Ai Choo is the killer of Adeline Ng Ai Choo. I, myself, thought that it was weird to write that down. That was my first thought. Though I have change my opinions for countless times when I was thinking, that was still my final answer. In my opinion, it is she, herself, who choose the road to death. Nobody force her. It was very very true that her parents and perhaps, her teacher, played a big part in indirectly causing Adeline Ng Ai Choo's death. The stress,the pressure,the expectations and the desperation is all caused by the parents and the teacher. However, its herself who cannot cope the stress,pressure,expectations and helpless feelings. I am not saying that I can cope the stress though... No matter literally or whatever,she still kill herself. I am beginning to think I am a cruel person...

Honestly, according to Mr Lau's question, I think that the teacher should not press on for more details. In case any people do not get what I am blogging about, I am blogging about the *If a teacher should press on for more details*question, asked by Mr Lau. Why do I say so? If a teacher presses on for more details, a student may be more pressurized. I would suggest that the teacher do some *detective work*. For example,she/he could asked her parents or her friends what was happening. Similarly, the teacher could observe a student actions and inferred that something has happened. Let me give an example: A student has suddenly became more bad tempered. He/she also do not hang out with his/her usual friends. His/her academic results dropped. You can actually inferred that he/she has be takin drugs! It may seemed to be assuming to somebody but with these clues, the teacher can actually do something!

In Mrs Tan Cheng Kwee case, she could actually contact Adeline's parents when Adeline's grades were dropping and when she refused to say anything. In conclusion, what I wanted to say was, a teacher can use other ways to help a student instead of pressing on for the truth.

"Wait For You"

[Verse 1]

I never felt nothing in the world like this before

Now I'm missing you& I'm wishing that you would come back through my door

Why did you have to go? You could have let me know

So now I'm all alone,Girl you could have stayed

but you wouldn't give me a chance

With you not around it's a little bit more then I can stand

And all my tears they keep running down my face

Why did you turn away?

[Bridge]

So why does your pride make you run and hide?

Are you that afraid of me?But I know it's a lie what you keep inside

This is not how you want it to be

[Chorus]

So baby I will wait for you

Cause I don't know what else I can do

Don't tell me I ran out of time

If it takes the rest of my life

Baby I will wait for you

if you think I'm fine it just ain't true

I really need you in my life

No matter what I have to do I'll wait for you

[Verse 2]

It's been a long time since you called me

(How could you forget about me)

You got me feeling crazy (crazy)

How can you walk away,Everything stays the same

I just can't do it baby

What will it take to make you come back

Girl I told you what it is & it just ain't like that

Why can't you look at me, your still in love with me

Don't leave me crying.

[Bridge]

Baby why can't we just start over again

Get it back to the way it was

If you give me a chance I can love you right

But your telling me it wont be enough

[Chorus]

So baby I will wait for you

Cause I don't know what else I can do

Don't tell me I ran out of time

If it takes the rest of my life

Baby I will wait for you

If you think I'm fine it just ain't true

I really need you in my life

No matter what I have to do I'll wait for you

[Bridge]

So why does you pride make you run & hide

Are you that afraid of me?

But I know it's a lie what your keeping insideThats not how you want it to be

Baby I will wait for you

Baby I will wait for you

If it's the last thing I do

[Chorus]

Baby I will wait for you

Cause I don't know what else I can do

Don't tell me I ran out of timeIf it takes the rest of my life

Baby I will wait for you

If you think I'm fine it just ain't true

I really need you in my life

No matter what I have to do I'll wait for you

I'll Be Waiting.

source from http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/elliottyamin/waitforyou.html

Just want to have a clearer image of the song Mr Lau recommended.