Sunday, March 7, 2010

How ironic. Most of the adults would be glad to be a child once again, unburdened by the responsibility of the society. On the other hand, most of the children would want to grow up faster instead, to experience the privileges of freedom. Is that really so? Is that only what we think? I do not know but I would like to believe that some of the adults would rather remained as an adult to enjoy the freedom he/she desire from young. I would also like to believe that some of the children would rather stay as a child, just happy to do only what he is suppose to.

What about me, you ask? Haha, I like myself to be special. From young, I was conditioned to stereotype that all the adults want to be carefree again and all the children want to escape from childhood. Hence, slowly but surely, I wanted to grow up faster. I wanted to be an adult. But, it was not to enjoy the so-called privileges of freedom, it was just to understand why adults wanted to be children and why children wanted to be adults. The carefree of children, the privilege of freedom, they were nothing but illusions. I have come to this age where people can consider us to be boys or gentlemen therefore I can say that I understand part of what it is to be an adult and what it is to be a child. I cannot consider myself to be carefree with the amount of pressure and workload I have. Of course, it cannot be compared to the stress an adult face but nontheless it was a negative force so strong and intangible that it holds you down as time passes. Yet the desire to experience freedom of adults were not quench.

However, I am fine with it. Simply because I feel that what both the adults and children wanted is the same. Privilege of freedom of the adults and being unburden and carefree like the children,is to break free from the chains of the absolute existence, life. In this society, whether you are a child or an adult, you got restrain but the rules of life. Children were bound by rules and regulations to protect us, despite the fact that we may not like the limitations. Adults, similarly, were weighed down by troubles of surviving, not only for themselves but for their families. They have a need to fret over little events that may bring changes to their lives or the lives of their loved ones. Therefore, they felt that its hard to take just a breather, thinking that such a short rest would bring a change to their routinal life, making their world upside-down.

6 comments:

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  2. Hi Zhi Yong, I agree with you totally about children wanting to become adults and vice versa. This is because people will really like to know what it feels to be another person. For an instance, I will really like to be a bird because I want feeling of flying freely in the air.
    Being a child or and adult has its pros and cons. Children cannot enjoy freedom as much as adults but adults have to shoulder heavier resonsibilities like working than that of children.
    Since we will be adults sonner or later, why don't we just enjoy being children?

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  3. Hi Zhiyong,
    I totally agree that adults now, reminisce about the 'good old days'. However, i would like to point out that the 'good old days' are not so "good" nowadays. Children are constantly under the pressure of their parents, of their school, of their academic results, of their friends, of their teachers and etc. This is a huge burden and has been a huge toll on the students phycological well-being. Most parents do not know the highly competitive environment we grow in. These is drastically different from the days where you can think of going out to play to after finishing your homework, nowadays, even finishing your homework before 10pm is a challenge.
    I believe all humans are like this, they will always cherish what they have after they lose it. Humans will also always long for what they cannot achieve for it is human nature.

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  4. Sorry, some grammar errors. Anyway there seems to be a lot to write about this topic, may write a post on it, just to let you know

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  5. Yo friend,
    childrens nowadays are very stressed.1st)Parents.2nd)school.3rd)peers.Parents forced their child to study and go to school and always take their result and compare with other students.Most children want to grow up as soon as possible to escape their parents and other factors that stressed them.For example, i want to grow up quikly because i find childs life really boring, study,study,study.A1 got present,f9got *slap*slap*.
    On the other hand, being an adult is not much better. They are stressed by their boss, by money and by alot of other things.They had to obey to their boss like we have to obey to our parents and teachers.
    SIGH, a person's life is always like that, someone will be on top of you and you must obey him.If you are the boss, you must listen to the government, if you are the government , you must listen to the president....
    Adults ask us to enjoy our childhood. I have a question for them, how can we enjoy our childhood when we spend it sitting infront of the table and doing homework.

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  6. Thanks Andy, Siyuan and Qiyu for commenting. Your views have brought about a different view in how I look upon this topic. I found Andy's comment extremely interesting and inspirational. Especially the phrase, "Since we will be adults sonner or later, why don't we just enjoy being children?"
    Yes, why not? We should learn to treasure the present, plan for the future and learn from the past. Once again thank you for letting me view this topic in a different angle. :)

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